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Am I to old

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Posted over 2 years ago

 

I have 2 questions:


Currently I work in facilities in the NHS as a band 7, I have always wanted to do Nursing but joined the Army instead and 24 yrs later I'm a Hotel Service Manager, am I at 48 to old to even think about becoming a nurse? And would there be any finacial support? I have a small pension & my wife eanrns around 18k a year.


 


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Hi Pete


You're not too old, i'm 47 and in my 1st year, we've still got plenty of life in us yet! i'm obviously the oldest in my cohort but no problems they're all great, we get on well. Studying is challenging sometimes but i'm coping!


Everyone who does the diploma qualifies for a bursary of about 500 a month, some people work part time as well, but i find i dont have time, i think i spend more time with my nose in my books than most of the young ones!!


My advice would be 'go for it'


Best of luck


 

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Hi Pete,


My course has a huge age range from 18 year olds right up to 50 year olds. Got for it

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Thanks for the replies, lot of food for thought (excuse the pun!)

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If it is what you want to do go for it ! Good luck !

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Hi pete, there are about 75,000 nurses who are over the age of 55 currently practicing in the National Health Service. If Nursing is truely what you want to do....go for it! Dont let this age factor stop you.


 

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Hi Pete. You know that phrase "live your life to the full"? Well that's what you need to do! If nursing is what you really want to do, then go for it! I'm sure you'll probably regret it if you don't. Age means nothing these days! It would be sad to lose somebody who could potentially become a great nurse because he thinks he's too old.


I met a men the other day who was doing a HCA shift through NHS Professionals on the ward where I work. He is 48 and in his 3rd year of a part-time course (which is 4 years and 10 months i believe). If money is a major worry then you could do this. It takes longer but you only do 2-3 days per week, allowing you to work part-time. If it isn't an issue then go full-time for 3 years.


Good luck and please keep us updated on what you decide to do!


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No! your not too old! Do you care about people, have compassion, want to help?  Godd for you, go for it.

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Hi, no your not to old to live your dream, because not doing so means a life of regret, forever wondering if you could have !

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Nursing is a profession where maturity and life experience are actually valued.

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hey mate-ur never too old-ive been a qualified nurse(RNMH) for 30 yrs-am still "learning"-am doing a diploma in "epilepsy"now-paul

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hey pete band 7-put yorself thru uni etc-you may get a band 5 if ur lucky!be a nurse!

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hey pete band 7-put yorself thru uni etc-you may get a band 5 if ur lucky!be a nurse!


 


I agree, I don't think you're too old and you should follow your heart but think carefully about the financial effects.


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Well thank you all for the kind  feedback, I have booked myself on an open day @ Bournemouth University and will take it from there.


 


The money is important in life, however I can't come to terms with going to work every day and not enjoying it. Band 7 or not!


 


Of course I may not enjoy Nursing, but if I don't try I'll never know will I?

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Hi, Pete.


I hope you enjoy the open day at Bournemouth, as you say it is a good first step and if you don't give it a go you will never know .


Take care and let us know how it goes.


Mo x.


 


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Thanks Mo. I will keep you updated


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Hi Pete


I am 48 and been qualified for 18 months. I did train as a nurse almost 30 years ago but didnt practice. I found the course ok, hard work but I think when your a mature student you put 100% into your training. Your never too old to learn...good luck


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Hi all


A quick update, due to the high number of applicants this year (no suprise!) my NVQ leve 4 and other qualifications are not quite enough. So am attempting to enrole on the Health Professionals Access to HE course @ Poole Collage, its a year long course and it was recomended by the staff at BU as a great supliment to qualifications.


 


They were very helpful and sympathetic , initially I was a bit down about it, but hey nothing comes easy and hopefully although it will add a further year, it will be worth it! (plus I can still work so the money will help!)

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Hi, Pete.


Thanks for the up-date. Sorry to hear you didn't quite make it .


Good luck with your Access course application, as you say it is only a year and will soon pass.


Take care and keep positive.


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Just to let you know I started last year at the grand old age of 48 and I am still going. It is tiring and hard work but so worth it. I doubt that you will be the oldest in your cohort even after another year! 

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Thanks for the replies and on reflection a year on the HE course is not the doom and gloom I 1st thought, It will give me a better insight into what full time study involves. And I can still work as its only 2 days a week.

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Well a quick update,


After going to Bournemouth Uni open day, I decided to try for a place on the access to Higher Education Health & Social Care course @ Poole Collage, which is 2 days a week. I also went to Learn Direct and started my level 2 English & Maths.


I have now passed both of these, and have a place on the Access course in Sept. So I am 1 step closer to my goal.


 


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Very well done Pete, only one more year until you start your nurse training, I shall be starting my final year in Sept, this year has simply flown by - I have loved every minute (except the essays!) and I'm sure you will too, good luck!

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PeteB says ...




Well a quick update,


After going to Bournemouth Uni open day, I decided to try for a place on the access to Higher Education Health & Social Care course @ Poole Collage, which is 2 days a week. I also went to Learn Direct and started my level 2 English & Maths.


I have now passed both of these, and have a place on the Access course in Sept. So I am 1 step closer to my goal.


 



Wow! That's great. In education,too old is not a good term. Anyone has a chance to learn what he/she wants to learn but of course that's if one is willing to study and learn. And since you have the willingness, then go.  Hoping for your success man. 



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Access to HE Social Work and Nursing


1st day and my word, I can't believe how many assingments we have to do in a year !


Feel its managable, although my job has expanded and I travel a 1000 work miles a month and have taken on a 1/3 more work!


I have started my 1st essay and think as long as I'm organised I should be okay........all this and I still may not get a place next year @ Uni!!!! I must be insane


 

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Well update course passed, and I have a place as a student , child health nurse!


Its been a long hard year, but worth it, and I feel very lucky to have been given this oppitunity to realise a dream..........thank you all for the replies ......


 


Still can't believe that in little over a month I will be a student nurse!


 

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I have heard of people starting nursing at 62 and 64 years of age

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Congratulations Pete! All the hard work has been worth it and now you can realise your dream.


I managed to fail my very last essay and am now awaiting the result of the resit (due any day now) I have managed to get a job and start in September all being well.

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Hi PeteB,


Well done.   Your determination and constant consistency has paid off.   Keep this up, and you will do very well.   The main stress reliever is to always keep your work up to date; hard at the time, yet so satisfying, and greatly increases your course enjoyment..


You may not like every day as a nurse, but giving your care and help to those in need is a great life.   You will have to deal with internal politics, and mountains of paper/computer work, yet helping your patients/clients makes everything worth while.   Have an exciting training.


Nev


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